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Engineering love at first match. 1 in 10 today. Dating apps: 1 in 10,000.
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    Sep 19, 2025
    Finding someone to marry is harder than ever. We used to marry for practical reasons and grow into love. Now we hold out for a soulmate. Thatโ€™s good! Marriages today are much happier. But soulmates are extraordinarily rare, and too many people are struggling to find theirs.
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    Jul 11
    Researchers looked at smile intensity in old yearbook and childhood photos, then checked who later divorced. The weakest smilers divorced at five times the rate of the biggest smilers. In the yearbook sample, not one of the top 10% of smilers had divorced. Perhaps a
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    Smile intensity in photographs predicts divorce later in life
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    Jul 11
    Someone did a meta-analysis on "do opposites attract?" They looked at millions of couples across 199 studies. Partners are more similar than not on almost everything. Politics (r โ‰ˆ .58) and religion were the most, then education/drinking, even age of losing one's virginity. On
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    Evidence of correlations between human partners based on systematic reviews and meta-analyses of 22...
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    Jul 11
    Researchers showed people a stream of dating profiles. The more they saw the pickier they got. Across 3 studies, the odds of saying yes to a profile declined by 27% from the first to the last. Nothing about the quality of the profiles changed. Only the number they'd already
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    A Rejection Mind-Set: Choice Overload in Online Dating - Tila M. Pronk, Jaap J. A. Denissen, 2020
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    New rule to FIX soccer: if you emote like you are in pain, mandatory trip to the locker room doctor. You get the free kick, but we're gonna treat your "injury" seriously.
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    Jul 9
    People who want their abilities admired also tend to want a famous partner
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    Jul 10
    People with tattoos are less likely to change their personal style if their partner wanted them to
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    Jul 10
    Researchers recorded 71 couples telling the story of how they met, then coded the laughter. The one thing they found that uniquely predicted relationship quality was the share of time spent laughing simultaneously. Notably, time spent laughing individually was not predictive.
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    Putting laughter in context: Shared laughter as behavioral indicator of relationship wellโ€being
    Laughter is a pervasive human behavior that most frequently happens in a social context. However, data linking the behavior of laughter with psychological or social outcomes are exceptionally rare....
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    Jul 10
    UCLA researchers followed 232 newlywed couples for 4 years to see if premarital doubts mean anything. Wives whoโ€™d had cold feet divorced at 2.5x the rate of wives who hadnโ€™t (19% vs 8%), and the doubts predicted divorce regardless of how happy they were at the time, if theyโ€™d
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    Should I marry him? If you're having doubts, don't ignore them, psychology study suggests
    In the first scientific study to test whether doubts about getting married are more likely to lead to an unhappy marriage and divorce, UCLA psychologists report that when women have doubts before...
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    Jul 10
    A study had spouses privately estimate the % of housework each does. The total is usually over 100%. No one's lying; people just remember the dishes they washed. They don't see most of their spouse's work, so they undercount it. Link to study in replies ๐Ÿ‘‡
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    Jul 9
    Researchers asked married people how easily they could find a better spouse. The answers didn't correlate with looks or status. They tracked commitment. Thinking you can do better is a symptom of the quality of your relationship; it's not actually about your options.
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    Jul 9
    Germ sensitivity correlates with openness to fast sex
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    Jul 9
    Long-married couples, wired up in labs, show physiological synchrony. Heart rates and breathing converge when they're close, and the degree of sync correlates with relationship quality. When researchers shuffle the people into fake pairs, the effect vanishes. Two hearts
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    Jul 9
    Ask couples what they fight about most. You'd probably guess money, sex, attention, or the in-laws. The top answer is the way something was said. A look or the tone of voice. Couples don't fight about things most of the time. They fight about how they just talked to each other,
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