🦜Middle aged IT person. Politics - Centrist. Contrarian. Stressed and Critical. TV & Film addict - Ah, now we see the violence inherent in the system. No DMs.
Today, My lovely 30 year old eldest son was hit by a train. He is clinically brain dead. Currently on a ventilator but there is no hope. He will be on an end of life path. Devastated. We all loved him so much. ❤️
I can't reply to everyone who has commented on my post about my son. I appreciate the kindness and support that has been sent my way.
At the moment they have delayed turning off life support until the morning so he is still with us in body until then.
Thanks. I wasn't going to post anything but I felt the need to cry out. Theres nothing anyone can say really, we just have to deal with it in our own way. Grief is a horrible process.
It would have been easier if she'd have just said my "parents were from the Caribbean" and got on with it for the sake of equanimity. But so many people don't do this these days and are always seeking conflict.
