I accidentally misgendered a tboy I just met and when I apologized he went
"and what are your pronouns?"
"she/her"
"got it, didn't want to assume"
then walked away
gagged me I'm afraid
using daddy in bed: weird, incestuous, unnecessarily gendered
using captain in bed: authoritative, gender neutral, implies the exciting possiblity of mutiny
you're telling me most people remember their childhoods? it's not normal to have occasional single memories with years of nothing and a general feeling of unease?
>on grindr
>looking for transfem top
>find one
>ask her if shes a genuine top or tops as a cope
>she doesn’t understand
>pull out diagram explaining the difference between wanting to top and doing it as a cope
>she laughs and says shes a top
>we get home
>it's a cope
