Honestly I bet she was trying her best to make you feel at home. Unfortunately when people aren’t really exposed to other cultures other than surface level stuff all they can base it off is racial stereotypes.
You say that you do not hate them but you breathed life into a hateful campaign against a teenager who just wanted to feel like she belonged somewhere. And she does. She’s right where she belongs. It is not your league to police or ‘defend’. Stop. It is not yours. It’s ours.
Probably because it’s not about black women hopping on a white trend, it’s women hopping on a women’s trend. It really has nothing to do with race at all, all women can relate to women’s issues even if their skin color differs.