Spelunking is funny because it’s absurdly terrifying and dangerous but not even considered cool or sexy. Nobody says, “Wow, he wriggles through caves, that’s so hot.” It’s done purely for the love of the game.
An ex-girlfriend of mine used to be the moderator of a femcel Discord server. She told me one of the most common things members did was complain about their boyfriends.
“Sir, the workers are striking.”
“I didn’t know we hired based on looks.”
“And on top of that, the general public is revolting.”
“Ah, those are the ones we didn’t hire.”
