Stay Weird. Stay Grounded. Come Home.
There’s a particular kind of person this is for. You know who you are. (I’m looking at you, Quill!)
We’ve wandered a little further than most. We’ve dipped our toes – or fully submerged ourselves – in the deep, strange waters of spirituality. We’ve felt that pull toward something more. We’ve sensed connection, revelation, meaning layered beneath meaning. At times we’ve walked the Astral.
Maybe like me, you’ve sometimes heard voices; hopefully not too often in a scary way, but in a conversational, even humorous way. Maybe you’ve felt the presence of the Divine, the Ancestors, the Fae, or something unnamed but undeniably there.
That’s not something to be ashamed or afraid of.
I’d argue more people could benefit from allowing themselves to experience a little more wonder, a little more mystery, a little more “what if there’s more going on here than meets the eye?”
But. (You knew there was a “but.” There is always a “but.”)
For those of us who like to fly – and I mean really FLY – I think it is essential that we also learn how to land.
The Tether
Call it grounding. Call it an anchor. Call it a tether.
Whatever word you use, you need something that connects you back to Earth: both literally and metaphorically. (Because one day we might actually become a space faring race!)
Because the truth is: You can wander the cosmos all you like. You can traverse inner worlds, outer worlds, symbolic worlds, spiritual worlds. But you are still, at the end of the day, a human being in a human body, living a human life. For now anyway, or for all practical means.
Which matters a lot.
Our tethers might look like: real, actual people who know you and can check in on us; routine (food, sleep, hygiene, the basics your body needs); Community (family, spiritual or otherwise); accountability (people who can say “hey, are you okay?” and mean it); the physical world (touch, breath, soil, gravity)
These are not limitations. They are what allow us to explore safely. For yourself and for others.
Judge by the Fruits
Here’s the core principle I keep coming back to:
Judge the experience by its fruits, not just its source.
You might believe your insights come from: your own mind, the Divine, God/the Gods, the Messiah/Prophets, the Ancestors, psychological Archetypes… or something else entirely.
And maybe you’re right. Maybe you’re not. It’s good to have a little uncertainty, IMHO.
But the more important question is: What does it do to you?
Does it make you: Calmer/more peaceful? Kinder? More compassionate? More honest? More connected to others?
Or does it make you: Isolated? Depressed? Superior? Reacted? Disconnected?
Because you can have the most “cosmic” experience imaginable… but if it leads you to treat people poorly, withdraw from life, or inflate your sense of importance? Then maybe something has gone off track.
The Enlightenment Trap
Let’s say – just for argument’s sake – that you are the most enlightened being currently walking the Earth.
Cool.
Now what?
If you: Come across as Arrogant, never actually do anything with that enlightenment, just sit around marinating in your own sense of specialness, or claim “we are all One” while treating others as fundamentally separate… then what is the point?
Spiritual insight that never leaves your own head is, frankly, unfinished work.
The measure isn’t how profound your inner world is.
The measure is:
How do you show up in the world because of it?
Voices, Whispers, and Inner Commentary
Sometimes, some of us experience our inner world as… a little crowded.
Not in a chaotic way. It’s more like a cast of characters. There’s commentary, dialogue. Perspectives that feel distinct, sometimes even Named.
That can be meaningful. It can be creative. It can even feel sacred.
But I offer my own a simple guideline, if you want it:
When those inner voices are warm, grounding, encouraging, sometimes humorous, and not overly controlling…
Then I say they’re probably functioning as part of a healthy internal ecosystem.
On the other hand, whenever they become urgent, commanding, grandiose, isolating, or push me to act without thought or consideration for the impact of my actions, that’s when it’s time to pause, step back, and check in with someone outside my own head.
No exceptions.
Come Home
And so we come to the heart of this little reminder to ourselves: Go exploring!
Seriously. Wander. Dream. Question. Experience. Let yourself be fucking weird. Let yourself be mystical. Let yourself touch something vast and strange and beautiful.
But: Come back.
Come back to your body, your relationships/your People, your responsibilities, your LIFE!
There’s no need to reject the beckoning of The Cosmos. No need to resist the summons to explore what’s beyond this mortal existence, to make deeper meaning of it all, and revel in that revelation.
It’s just good to remember: I live here, too.
I have a Purpose here, though I may not yet fully ken what that is, or how to live it out. That’s the beauty of being an Immortal Soul experiencing Mortality. To ebb and flow between This World and That One.
Final Thought
So it’s not a choice between being spiritually open and being “grounded.” The real work – the good work – is learning how to be both at the same time.
The challenge is not how to escape reality, but to push its boundaries, explore beyond, and then bring home the treasures you have gathered and share them with others.
So yes, my spiritual siblings. Go fly! Explore. Listen. Wonder.
But keep hold of your tethers. And come Home.
You don’t even have to come home in one piece!
No matter how far you go, I’ll be here, waiting. If you lose parts of yourself on the journey, there are other parts of you still here, ready to help put you back together.
And when the Final Call comes, we can walk out of this world hand in hand, ready, prepared, equipped to face what lies ahead.
Together.