In my experience, a lot of “gender critical” transphobes define their womanhood through suffering, and then get suspicious that trans women can be relieved to be recognised as women.
I honestly think this is the thing. They are miserable and feel they had no choice in the matter because it is "natural" so they are furious that anyone might be circumventing that and experiencing joy. They want to force people to experience their pain.
I'm glad this is resonating with so many people!
Since figuring out I'm #ActuallyAutistic, I've written a few articles that you might find interesting or useful:
It seems really revealing that the words "trap", "hooker", and "jailbait" suggest women and girls are maliciously luring innocent men, who apparently see themselves as metaphorical fish.
When people compare the Trump administration to Nazi Germany, we're not comparing it to the 1940s, when people knew what was happening. We're comparing it to the 1930s, when it was creeping.