Hardcore J2 shippers scare me!
I'm not talking about people who write and read the fic. Jensen's hot. Jared is hot. If you like boys who dig boys, the idea of them together is damn hot. I've read a bit of J2, and I worked out it's not my thing, but if it's yours more power to you.
It's the people that are SO invested in them wanting to be together in real life that worry me. Analysing every photo and interview (OMG - did you see how Jared borrowed Jensen's pen??? You don't use the pen of someone you're not totally comfortable with!!! Teh luv is so real!!!) and slagging off their wives for absolutely no reason. Why? It doesn't affect the quality of your fantasy life for them to be married - just pretend they're not. And your fantasy life is the only thing that's affected by this.
If the hardcore J2 shippers are right, then their two favourite actors are so deeply conflicted over their sexuality that they've roped two innocent women into sham marriages for the sake of preserving their public images, even though it's now extremely possible for popular actors to come out of the closet and remain popular. I, personally, LIKE these actors, and I don't want to believe they're so deeply unhappy. If they are, I'm sorry for them and I hope they get help. But until then, I'm going to believe they're the happy, well-adjusted, dear friends they appear to be.