I had one of those weekends. Mom's, you know those. The ones where you just want a few minutes to not be a mom? When you're burned out of life in general? Jaron was wonderful at just taking over and letting me do whatever. Thanks, hun!
I read
this talk that was given in the Oct. 2008 General Conference by Joseph B. Wirthlin. I needed a boost, and this really did it for me. Some of the stories are just so funny. It really put life into perspective. Here's a few of the stories that helped change my attitude:
"I remember loading up our children in a station wagon and driving to Los Angeles. There were at least nine of us in the car, and we would invariably get lost. Instead of getting angry, we laughed. Every time we made a wrong turn, we laughed harder.
"Getting lost was not an unusual occurrence for us. Once while heading south to Cedar City, Utah, we took a wrong turn and didn’t realize it until two hours later when we saw the “Welcome to Nevada” signs. We didn’t get angry. We laughed, and as a result, anger and resentment rarely resulted. Our laughter created cherished memories for us.
"I remember when one of our daughters went on a blind date. She was all dressed up and waiting for her date to arrive when the doorbell rang. In walked a man who seemed a little old, but she tried to be polite. She introduced him to me and my wife and the other children; then she put on her coat and went out the door. We watched as she got into the car, but the car didn’t move. Eventually our daughter got out of the car and, red faced, ran back into the house. The man that she thought was her blind date had actually come to pick up another of our daughters who had agreed to be a babysitter for him and his wife.
"We all had a good laugh over that. In fact, we couldn’t stop laughing. Later, when our daughter’s real blind date showed up, I couldn’t come out to meet him because I was still in the kitchen laughing. Now I realize that our daughter could have felt humiliated and embarrassed. But she laughed with us, and as a result, we still laugh about it today."
So, last night when we were ignoring Kaden because he was supposed to be asleep, and he pooped and tried to take care of it himself, I laughed, and quickly called to Jaron for help.
And, when Kaden pee'd all over the bathroom this morning because he didn't make it to the toilet in time, I laughed (I tried to keep it inside so he didn't think it was OK to pee everywhere).
When Jaron told me he didn't get the dishwasher emptied, it was OK. There's worse things that could happen.
When I got the bill from daycare this morning, it was a LOT less than it has been the last few times. That made me smile BIG. Thank goodness she bills hourly!
So, "Come What May, and Love It."