now that i have officially moved out of bangalore, i have nothing to gatekeep.
here’s a list of (mostly) every place i went to eat and what i thot about it
just met someone rawdogging a conversation. no checking phone notifs, no zoning out to thots of pending chores. just making eye contact and listening to what i was saying.
my hunch is that we will see a new wave of rich gen alpha kids whose privilege would be being less online.
the 'ipad baby' is a function of overworked working parents who hand over technology to kids early on for their chance at a few hours' downtime in a day because they either
this is a very common pattern with men in love. it is so easy to gauge how much into you a man is. if you didn’t trigger the primal provider impulse in even a formerly ‘cheap’ man, you’re not the one.
tbh when i was dating, i was kinda cheap and thought to myself
"i want to make sure i find someone who's financially conscious"
but now, having met my gf, it's like some hidden boy brain programming got activated:
make MONEY so she can buy WHATEVER she WANTS and be HAPPY
