Today was still cold and windy but I walked. I put on layers and the long puffy coat I'm so glad I bought this fall. It comes to mid calf, very good against the wind and cold today.
Not much of a walk, but about fifteen minutes outside in this weather feels like more and I was glad I'd gone out. If you don't keep walking you can quickly lose the stamina, and I'd like to keep it a while longer. I did succeed in turning corners without tripping, always good.
Now I'm having a pot of tea while I attend to a bit of Freecycling.
Mats, acid free drawing paper in various sizes, some scraps of Arches hot press. There are quite a few artists and hobbyists in this neighborhood so I'm hoping they're claimed.
Elsewhere there was a discussion about children's emotions and how they need to be taken into account and often aren't.
Mine, as the smallest of a large family, certainly weren't by older sibs, who targeted me. My parents were too busy and harassed just supporting their family and doing all the physical work of housing feeding and clothing, to take anything else into account.
Sometimes this can result in people growing up with underdeveloped skills in recognizing and addressing emotional needs, and it can show in various ways.
Some people simply can't cope with life responsibilities, like a couple of my sisters, who were totally dependent on their husbands, with sad results.
Some develop the other way, with inner resources, like another sister. Once in a while I'm briefly in the first group, but more often I live in the second, pretty self reliant.
To the point of pigheaded, maybe..my unmarried sister certainly was. And we did share DNA.
I have a question for readers: I finished the Delderfield, which is part one of a saga, but part two isn't available right now. What's another saga you can suggest?
I read and loved the Cazalets, and I can always turn to Trollope, but I wonder what might be more sweeping?
Maybe I'll reread the Forsyte Saga, if I can get through the death of Philip Bosinney. Any ideas, please? I'm thinking generations of families and events.
Happy day everyone, here it's keep warm against icy drafts, but some of you are keeping cool in blasts of heat. Reading can happen either way.
































